April 24, 2008

7 Deadly Sins: Sloth

After yesterday's post it is only fitting enough that we continue the 7 Deadly Sins series and have a close look at the sin of Sloth.

When I started this series, and did that little test/quiz it showed me that my most prominent sin was that of Lust. I guess, if we're going to be totally honest, that Lust is what is on my mind more than anything - and let's face it: The questiones asked on that quiz wanted to know what is on my mind. Which is probably why I don't score high on Sloth.

I mean... who's going to choose the option "lie around doing nothing on a couch" over "have kinky sex with a beautiful woman". It is quite easy to direct people in a certain direction...

Sloth, however, may actually be the sin that I indulge the most in. Especially of late, as you learned from yesterday's little post.

Anyway. Before we get too deep into the thoughts on Sloth, lets grab that quote from wikipedia as has become customary in this little series... it gives me a good reference to look at while I write.


More than other sins, the definition of sloth has changed considerably since its original inclusion among the seven deadly sins. In fact it was first called the sin of sadness. It had been in the early years of Christianity characterized by what modern writers would now describe as melancholy: apathy, depression, and joylessness — the last being viewed as being a refusal to enjoy the goodness of God and the world He created. Originally, its place was fulfilled by two other aspects, Acedia and Sadness. The former described a spiritual apathy that affected the faithful by discouraging them from their religious work. Sadness (tristitia in Latin) described a feeling of dissatisfaction or discontent, which caused unhappiness with one's current situation. When St. Thomas Aquinas selected Acedia for his list, he described it as an "uneasiness of the mind," being a progenitor for lesser sins such as restlessness and instability. Dante refined this definition further, describing Sloth as being the "failure to love God with all one's heart, all one's mind and all one's soul." He also described it as the middle sin, and as such was the only sin characterised by an absence or insufficiency of love. In his Purgatorio, the slothful penitents were made to run continuously at top speed.

The modern view of the vice, as highlighted by its contrary virtue zeal/diligence, is that it represents the failure to utilize one's talents and gifts. For example, a student who does not work beyond what is required (and thus fails to achieve his or her full potential) could be labeled 'slothful'.

Current interpretations are therefore much less stringent and comprehensive than they were in medieval times, and portray Sloth as being more simply a sin of laziness or indifference, of an unwillingness to act, an unwillingness to care (rather than a failure to love God and His works). For this reason Sloth is now often seen as being considerably less serious than the other sins, more a sin of omission than of commission. The South American animal was named after this sin by Roman Catholic explorers.

Oooh... that's a bit of a longer paragraph than the others got. So, lets get right to it!

It was first called the sin of sadness: You know. I think the vast majority of us when we hear about Sloth, we think of laziness... of not doing anything and basically just wasting time. We picture a dude with an enormous beer belly, sporting a torn and dirty old white t-shirt, and a can of beer in one hand. His other hand reaching under his equally dirty boxers scratching his balls while watching some uninspiring talk show host interviewing sex-crazed teens. I had never even heard of Sloth as Sadness before... but reading it makes perfect sense to me. I don't think anyone can reach the stage I just described without experiencing a great deal of sadness. In essence... is Sloth not just the end result of great Sadness?

Refusal to enjoy the goodness of God and the world He created: Refusal is a very strong word... inability is more the case for most people who indulge in Sloth, I would imagine. And, I am not writing about these sins with a religious view, so we'll just basically consider the world He created, as the world around us. This would then pretty much sum up my take on the meaning of Sloth. And, am I guilty? Indeed I am... to a certain extent of course. There are a lot of things that I dream of doing, that I want to do, and quite a few that I actually need to do, but yet I find myself incapable of doing just that. I find myself sitting around doing nothing because it is so much easier that way... Yeah, I know - I need to change this pattern. This is not something that I frequently do, though... or at least not always. I just seem to go through periods of doing basically nothing (of importance).

A feeling of dissatisfaction or discontent, which caused unhappiness with one's current situation: Jackpot! Well, I guess this is pretty much hitting the nail on the head when describing my situation. I am not satisfied with what I have accomplished in many aspects of life, and I do feel that I could achieve so much more. One of the major reasons I haven't been able to reach my potential, is based on circumstance beyond my control. If I am to go all therapeutic on myself, I will tell myself that circumstance is just what I choose to blame this upon...

The slothful penitents were made to run continuously at top speed: Sounds like I've lately been planning to punish myself then. You know, I have thought of going out running for a stretch every morning, to start off the day. Ok - let's be honest... this running will be done at a moderate jogging speed - surely not at top speed. I'd be too lazy for that!

Represents the failure to utilize one's talents and gifts: Exactly! Again! Damn, I'm learning a thing or two as I work my way through this little sin. At least, this is how I feel - if I am right or wrong, well, that's for others to decide. But, I do feel that my talents lie in the creative business. I write, I've made movies, I've acted and I've played around with designing computer games. Plain and simple... I love to create. Yet, I don't do it. Not to the fullest anyway. I've got hundreds of stories that I started to write - only a couple of them have reached a first draft stage... still waiting for me to go through them and re-write them. Anyone who thinks that re-writing isn't necessary needs to learn a few things about writing. No one will ever write anything perfectly at first. There are always things that require improvement. Yes - require! Not just... "could use" improvement. I just have a major problem finishing things off... I always come up with some new idea that I can't wait to get started on, and so a lot of half finished (or just started) projects get left behind.

A student who does not work beyond what is required: This is getting uncanny. Yes, I was that student. Teachers would always tell me (and sometimes my mom, in hopes she could turn me around) that I have so much potential, if only I would study more. Truth be told - I went through my entire high school and college years without doing a single homework assignment, and still managed to graduate with average grades (well, I had average grades before I was kicked out of college, anyway). Hey! I had other things to do in my spare time than to sit with my face down in school books.

Sloth is now often seen as being considerably less serious than the other sins: I know this refers to what is important "in the eyes of the Lord", but I would say that this is definitely one of the most serious sins in our personal lives. I mean, most other sins deal with enjoyment or pleasure of some sort - while Sloth really hurts our very own well being. In that respect - Sloth should possibly be considered the worst of all the 7 Deadly Sins.

The South American animal was named after this sin by Roman Catholic explorers: And isn't it one of the funniest looking animals you ever saw?


Well, that concludes my look into Sloth as a sin. But, I will leave you with another song on my playlist which I feel represents Sloth well. And, I do recommend you give this one a listen even if you don't usually listen to the songs I put up there. This is one of the best songs ever recorded in my opinion - a magnificent power ballad by Skid Row called "Wasted Time". I would sure like to be able to sing with the kind of power that Sebastian Bach shows off in this song. Right at the end there, when he starts singing "I never thought you'd let it get this far, boy"... that stuff just reaches in and pulls your heart right out of your chest, leaving a massive chest cavity in which the sound goes right to the core of your spine. Seriously - this is one good tune!

52 comments:

Knight said...

This is a great song. I really love the way you describe it. Very passionate.
Sloth is probably the most common sin among people. In some form at least. It's the most accepted though because for the most part we are only hurting ourselves.

Anonymous said...

First, I must tell you I listened to the song! Good lyrics and right up my musical alley (to the annoyance of my family, lol)

I've been waiting for the deadly sins to get around to sloth. I think it is as serious as the others (aside from my religious belief that sin is sin is sin) because our attitudes reflect what is in our hearts, and sloth is indicitive of our selfishness..."I don't FEEL like doing ____!" I struggle with sloth. Perhaps it is connected with depression? This would explain the developing inability to do anything over time. (And yes, the hours in a day expand and contract to hold what you put into them, with rare exception.) I am reminded of one definition of sin = putting "I" at the center of things. (get it? S-I-N, putting "I" at the center) With sloth, we become victims of our own helplessness as we selfishly choose to do nothing for anyone else (let alone ourselves). It is an easy habit to form.

Anyhoo, that is my 2-cents (give or take $20!)

Dana said...

So, my question is, what are you going to do about it?? Giving it a name, identifying it is the easy part! *wink*

Pardon me while I take a heaping tablespoon of my own medicine!

Karen said...

I have to say that I really never knew about the original take on sloth. Pretty cool. And pretty much how I like to live my life...taking appreciating everything around me. Awesome.

Jay said...

"We picture a dude with an enormous beer belly, sporting a torn and dirty old white t-shirt, and a can of beer in one hand. His other hand reaching under his equally dirty boxers scratching his balls while watching some uninspiring talk show host interviewing sex-crazed teens."

Make that a reality show on MTV or VH1 and you just describe my life. LOL

Kidding.

Mostly.


I think sloth is pretty common and the easiest one to fall into. Things get really tough and relationships go bad and people get sad and .. well, things just get worse and worse. And it's tough to pull ourselves out of it too.

R.E.H. said...

Knight: That is how I like my music... passionate ;)

And, yes. I think a lot of people indulge in Sloth, but many would not like to admit to it.

Kcinnova: Glad you liked the song too (what's not to like, right?).

I do believe depression really lies at the heart of Sloth. I don't really think that it is often that case that people simply don't want to do things, or get out there and enjoy the world around us... it is that we simply don't have the strength to pull ourselves out of whatever personal misery we're in. And, that in itself is a sin. If we're feeling down, we should do our utmost to feel better. But, of course, that is so easy to say and much harder to do.

Dana: Oh... I thought everything was going to be just peachy now that I had identified the problem. Do I actually have to DO something about it? That requires work... ;)

Karen: I think what Sloth means is NOT taking in and appreciating the things around you. So you sound not guilty ;)

Jay: LOL! You just made me actually laugh out loud! ;) And, to think I almost DID make it a reality show of sorts, but I decided to stay with where the original inspiration came from... a script idea I had about a guy like that (and no money) who mysteriously recieved millions of dollars. It was a comedy/action idea... yeah - one of those hundreds that still await their completion.

And, yes. Sloth is a downward spiral. Once it begins, it is very difficult to pull out of.

Spiky Zora Jones said...

i always used the term...Time Waster as a person that is considered a SLACKER. We joked and tease a friend when they were not in that adventurous and joyful mood.

I loved you post sweetie...oh and I added you to my meme. I just have to know...hehehe, come on, antipodean minds want to know. .

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

Oooh, Man, I want that dress!!! Or, I wanna' know how to make it [cheap, outa tule] for mini-me's and all lil'Gals!!!!

You have the best pics with these "sinly" posts.

SLOTH: yada' yada' yes. And, yea, and I agree and it fits us all at certain moods, times, faults, downs b-4 the ups....

Get ready...here I go...once more... Glass half full? Glass half empty?

No, no, now. You mentioned previously that you've pulled yourself from the poverty you grew up with/in. I so, did the same. Not my choices, not my decisions, but children pay the costs of the adults. (Poo-ey enough about that.)

So, you have to see how full your glass is from then. You know you have potential and the right stuff...

[FYI, not finishing projects tends to be a male trait...although not always...but genetically...prehistorically hunting and migrating and all, at least I think.]

Anyhoo. Like that silly little idea I have for you about one or two of your little projects. That's how it starts...a nickle here a dime there, a patten, then America and the Oprah show!!!

Whoooooo, look at you go!

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

If I had an email for you I'd send you my "rinky-dink" ponderings and you could [obsess, JK] review and expand and probably throw a twist and run with it...

Like a said, nickle, dime, Oprah, the world! Yada'yada' LOL! I like that!!!

{{huggies-smoochies}}~~~~giddy vibes~~~~giddy vibes~~~~

Happy Friday (already? You lucky dog you!)

Dianne said...

but depression is an illness, so are we/they saing that a mental illness is a sin!? or that it leads to sin?

I know the Church certainly has little if any regard for science but I'm getting the feel from most of the comments that depression is being viewed as a character flaw and that a "sad" person should just snap out of it.

Oh well - fiddle dee - I'll think about that tomorrow.

Freakazojd said...

Hm. Hm hm hm. Sloth, eh. I have struggled with this beast more than I care to think about. Here's what I think: To whom is it important that you "accomplish" something? You say that you like to create, and you HAVE created. You create on this blog almost every day. You've created games, movies, characters, stories... You are talented, and you use that talent for both your own enjoyment and the enjoyment of others. So where is the problem? What I think I hear you saying is that not being PAID for this creating is the problem. Here's where this gets sticky for me. Once the creating becomes a job, I have more problems with it. Is it so bad to have a "regular, non-creative" job that allows you the time and energy to create in your spare time without any set contracts/obligations to anyone? Is that so bad? I heard a GREAT quote that Denzel Washington has repeated over and over to his kids as they've grown: "We do what we have to do to do what we want to do." God, that covers a multitude of things, doesn't it? I LOVE that quote.
I hope that you are feeling better soon. I can definitely relate to how you are feeling. Right now I'm going through similar feelings but for different reasons. I know how hard it is to pull yourself out of the fog, but I really feel that you can do it. Maybe you just need to be in the fog for a bit first. Maybe just allow yourself to sit in it for a bit, and then decide on a day in which you will take just one little step in the direction of the exit, so to speak. That one little step leads to two little steps and so on...focus on small things/goals/accomplishments instead of overwhelming yourself with a lifetime's worth of worry.
I hope this makes sense, because holy shit I ramble when I'm tired. ;)
Sending you big, BIG hugs.
xoxo

L.P. said...

My eyes kept roaming back to the kinky sex line...
bet I could knock that sloth off your back ~wiggling eyebrows~

Morning kiss?

R.E.H. said...

Spiky Zora Jones: Oh, you didn't just tag me with a meme, did you? Alright, alright... for you I'll do it ;)

Farmer*s Wife (x2): Yeah, I kind of know that. I DO have the ability to pull myself out of deep sh*t when I've gotten myself into it... usually it takes me a while to get going though.

And, oh yeah - that idea of yours. I'll have to get in touch with you and see what kind of brilliance you've cooked up for me ;)

Dianne: I'm not personally of the opinion that depression is necessarily an illness. While it is treatable through medication, I would say that it's more of a personality trait. Some of us are more inclined to suffer from depression than others... some are genuinely happy all the time. I still wouldn't call it an illness.

I suffer from depression every now and then... I have never taken medication against it, and I have always been able to shake it off.

I guess in some cases it can be an illness, but for the most part I think it is basically a personality trait.

Freakazojd: I would say the reason I want to be paid to be creative is so that I can spend ALL of my time being just that. I'm not asking to become rich from what I do... just enough to earn a respectable living.

And, while I have created a lot of things - the problem has been that I have never created anything to its fullest potential. Blogging itself is one thing - but I'd say that it's more of a creative outlet than anything else. Stories, movies and games lie half finished and really aren't useful to show off as samples of my work.

Only a couple of things have been finished off somewhat successfully, one of which I should blog about in the near future.

Lakota: With a woman ready and willing nearby - there is never room for Sloth! (At least - not until after sex).

R.E.H. said...

Dianne: Just read what I wrote... what I refer to is "general" depression. There are mental illnesses that in part, or throughout, involves depression - such as manic depressive disorder, borderline and what have you. Those are illnesses, but the basic feeling down about oneself, thinking one isn't worthy type of depression that we all go through at times... that is what I do not consider an illness...

Dianne said...

thanks for clarifying REH :)
The semantics of "depression" vs. feeling sad, being down, self-esteem issues is so complex. for a long time I just assumed that I had a "flaw" or that I should just get over myself. when the emotions caused physical symptoms and became debilitating I decided to seek MEDICAL help as well as someone to talk to. Best decision I ever made. I used to think people who were sad or negative all the time were "slothy" :)
but as I fine tuned my empathy I decided I couldn't make that judgement. And to add to the complexity/confusion - I've been diagnosed as clinically despressed yet I am a positive person who always looks for the shiny (as jo would say) and always finds a way to let it slide or push on through.

I guess the whole "sadness is a SIN" thing really pushed my buttons, especially when mixed with what I preceive as a couple of really intolerant comments.

thanks for the discussion :)

Jill said...

I prefer to say that I'm relaxing...
And isn't our right to be happy to do nothing?
And i think that internet might be the slothing object par exellencence!

Richard said...

Being both Christian and an inveterate sinner I have enjoyed your series on the seven deadly.

I admit to learning something today about Sloth.

Surprising about the sadness part; it speaks to my own bouts of melancholia throughout the years.

You are an excellent writer; take one story - just one that is complete but needs re-writing and do it.

Dedicate an hour or two a day to the project till you're done.

Do it man!

Rich

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

Hey Madman. Just checkin' in to see how you are today?

Reviewing all the comments further today and I will say, I get that way too (wouldn't know it by the way I present myself). And, I become agoraphobic. And, I don't know why because I am an outgoing person.

But, there are periods of time where I lock myself up in my home. I could be happy here all by my lonesome (me and the family -- just no one else).

Winter is the worst. After the Holidays (kids and all) I find myself totally unsocial for the next three months or so. Even, my friends have started to notice this event.

Once the sun comes out and summer arrives I blossom like a butterfly from my cocoon. That's really how I feel about the whole "awakening" as I get out of the funk.

Anyhow, when I feel it coming on I make myself do and plan certain things just to keep me level and all. But, each year? It gets a little worse.

Dad says it's genetic. So, I don't hold fault of some who just can't shake it. I have so much to be thankful for...but, chemicals, emotions, the mind. It all mixes around inside ourselves and we can't always control the outcome.

So, having said all that, I sure hope you have a great day and a fantastic weekend and a great time at your party (but not so great a time that you wake up feelin' ill the next day) ;o)

Later Gator, Happy Friday!

Leighann said...

I really don't know what to say about these post because I could never say enough about them. I love how you're disecting and examining each Sin.

Your description of "Wasted Time" gave me goosebumps, I think because that's exactly how I would describe it. I think we're pretty much on the same musical wavelength.

Sparkling Red said...

This has been the most fascinating sin so far! The history of the definition of sloth is very thought-provoking.

I'm sure we've all had spells of sloth. You're right - it does become a tar baby. I don't know how to get out sometimes, but eventually I wake up one day and feel better.

I really like sloth the mammal. They're cute little fellas. :-)

Anonymous said...

I have been a sloth this whole darn week you can tell in my posts and my commenting..

That is a sin I will say I have, and sometimes proud of it!! sad huh?

Oh well! I will stay in my slothful mood from time to time and kick back and eat some Bon Bons!!!

Smooches!!

Real Live Lesbian said...

I just heard that song last week! Amazing song. Truly!

Cute sloth. I wish I was that cute when I was slothy....oh like now!

Anonymous said...

Sloth has to be your greatest sin.

"Who's going to choose the option lie around doing nothing on a couch over have kinky sex with a beautiful woman".

Due to the lack of kinky sex you're having I'd say you choose the couch option daily.

"Refusal is a very strong word... inability is more the case for most people who indulge in Sloth"

It is very clear that you are an able bodied person. You are not handicapped, imprisoned, mentally handicapped, mute, deaf, blind, or confined to a wheelchair.

Saying you have the "inability" to change your life is dishonest. "Refusal" is the correct word.

The man in the wheelchair who does not walk to the corner store has an "inability" to walk. The healthy guy who does not walk to the store demonstrates a "refusal" to walk.

Saying "inability" makes it seem like you have no choice in the way your life is turning out. You have all the choice in the world. I bet if someone put a gun to your head you could go out there and change your life for the better.

If you put a gun to the head of the guy with spinal damage in the wheelchair and told him to walk - there's no way on earth he could do it. He is the person who is truly deprived of choice.

You are blessed with the ability to make choices that can change your life for better or worse every day. Don't act like you don't have choices. It is disrespectful to people who truly have no choices in life.

If you're going to be apathetic about your situation at least admit to your apathy. It is possible to be slothful and retain some sense of honesty and dignity.

You are not helpless. You simply refuse to help yourself.

By the way - I respect you for admitting to your fear and laziness on your previous post. That's a great first step. Once you've admitted to all your problems you can go on to fixing them. I'm sure everyone wants to help you make the fixes. You can get it done. You're getting there!

L.P. said...

ACTUALLY, the only reason REH isn't haven't kinky sex right now is because I'm on the otherside of the world from him. Otherwise, we would be playing all over that sofa in ways the manufacturer never dreams of.

BTW, Unsigned, you're crossing the funny "I'm a Bitch and love picking on you line" over to the "I'm an annoying know everything better than you" zone.

Sparkling Red said...

One more thing: I have tagged you for a meme!

tt said...

uh-O...looks like lakota and unsigned may get a quarrel going...** snicker..cat fights can be sort of funny**
Anyway...I HATE...got that?? H.A.T.E to see pictures of Sloths! They totally creep me out and I'm sure I'll have a nightmare about one now thank.you.very.much. (** just pokin' a little fun...I didn't have to look did I? **) I think if we're honest we all get a bit 'slothy' from time to time. Life has a way of derailing us from time to time. If our choo-choo leaves the track for a while it gives us a chance to reflect and heal and regroup and get going again. But a bit of slothing does us good. Batteries don't recharge by themselves now do they.
I'd like to remind you of something...if I may....Nobody in this world is perfect. We're all trying to figure our 'life' out...one second, one minute one day at a time. And by sharing things with us as you so beautifully do...you not only help yourself but us in the process.
My final thought...keep on keeping on dude...you're awesome!

The OE said...

After a lifetime of constant vigilance over National security the sitting around on the couch part sounds pretty good

Angela said...

Who is this "The OE" character? Because they just commented on my blog as well. Meaningless spam?

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

Thank goodness lakota popped in. A certain someone had me ready to "flip" the protective switch again.

But, I'll behave. People who choose to judge without sharing...aren't worth the advice they give.

[Where are the other ANGELS anyhoo?] {smiley-wink}

But, I guess we are all allowed our opinions and are lucky enough that you are so open to what we all say.

Sure hope your party and your weekend are uplifting!

Happy Saturday r.e.h.!

Aunt Jackie said...

Sometimes I feel stuck between a battle of Sloth and Gluttony... I dunno. Guess we all go through this. Knowing that we're not the only ones... is that comforting? I don't know...

I wish for the perfect world, and I feel that life is what we make it, but still makes me wonder why we 'put ourselves through this kind of stuff' lol if we're in control, why don't we do more great things?

Life is hard...

Hey I'm doing pretty good this month!

Jo said...

I've always thought of sloth as self-neglect through apathy...the 'sadness' interpretation is really interesting! Introspection takes work...while you may be getting down on yourself about the doing part, at least you're self-examining---that's valid, necessary work.

I think of you as working on your next, Best, stage in life.

Jeff B said...

I thought about writting a long winded response to your post, but I just don't feel like it.

Bwahahahaha

I've enjoyed your take on these seven sins, great thought and energy put into them. Guess that means sloth may not apply to you after all!

Raven said...

Well, anybody who puts as much effort as you did into researching and writing about sloth - and then responding to the rest of us fails to top the sloth meter in my book.

Reading through comments was interesting. I think clinical depression is more common than people realize and lots of us spend years beating ourselves up for things that have a good deal to do with body chemistry and not character.

After years of brutalizing myself and being demonized by my family, I've come to rethink some of the judgments we all have on wasting time. I grant that there should be limits. I'm sloth incarnate. That said, sometimes our soul/spirit is regenerating during those supposedly idle times.

You are in a life transition right now. Maybe you aren't being lazy at all. Maybe you are simply germinating your new direction. I think creative people, in particular, need to do that. Doing for the sake of doing isn't always a productive use of time and sitting around not doing isn't always useless. Or that's what I think. Granted, I'm a touch unstable and my life is a train wreck, but I'm also reputed (in a very tiny circle of other humans) to have some degree of wisdom.

I'm writing a tome here. Sorry. I thought this was interesting and enlightening. I've enjoyed your Sins series very much and you are so creative and such a prolific writer that I think you will move through this phase in short order. You have tons to offer and I have great faith that you will do so.

Jahooni said...

i am too tired to type anything...zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz!

Jen said...

It's more than easy to find yourself where you are now when you didn't think you would.

I remember thinking the same, "I am nowhere near as productive now that I should have all the time in the world to be that. I am not utilizing all this freedom to my advantage, and time flies. . . . " as well as, "When looking for a new job, I have only come to the conclusion that there isn't a single job out there that I would enjoy working at. . . ." Unfortunately, I have no solutions for you. All I can really say is, it's just something you have to go through. You need to go through. Eventually, you'll find yourself where you need to be. You'll get there. You will.

chin up! It does get better!

R.E.H. said...

Dianne: I realized it didn't sound too good, which is why I felt the need to explain what I meant ;)

Thanks for sharing that with us. Depression is something that so many of us go through, and quite often - people in our vicinity don't even know about it.

Jill: Surely the internet is a modern version of Sloth Extraordinaire... But, you're right - we DO have the right to relax.

Richard: Some very good advice about taking one story and completing it... the number of times I have told myself the same thing. But, that is definitely a step that I need to take.

Glad you've enjoyed the 7 Deadly Sins so far.

Farmer*s Wife: Winters are a depressing time. I think many of us become more or less agoraphobic in the dark months of winter - and that too is connected with sadness (aka Sloth).

I am definitely one of those people myself. I prefer quite often the solace of my own company mostly during the winter. In the summer - that's when I like to go out and hang with my friends... much more so, than during winter.

Leighann: I'm happy to hear that you find these 7 Deadly Sin posts interesting and enlightening.

And, that song is the BOMB, isn't it?

R.E.H. said...

Sparkling Red: This was indeed a much more fascinating sin to write about than I anticipated. And the history about it, with the Sadness, was interesting news to me.

And, Sloth the Mammal is one awesome creature!

Brand New: It takes guts to admit to being a Sloth, and it takes a lot of character to be proud of it ;)

You and I are the same in that regard!

Real Live Lesbian: I can assure you that you look cuter than that sloth... as cute as the animal may be ;)

Rockin' good song!

Unsigned: I'd say you choose the couch option daily.

Supply and demand... it is not the same thing.

You are not handicapped, imprisoned, mentally handicapped, mute, deaf, blind, or confined to a wheelchair.

But, you do forget that depression is a handicap as well. It does leave you incapable of doing certain things. This is a fact.

If you're going to be apathetic about your situation at least admit to your apathy.

Which is exactly what I did in my previous post. I have a knack for being honest, both to myself and to others.

And, I have admitted to many faults. I have taken many steps in the right direction. If you'd known where I was a few years ago, you would know just how far I have come - mentally, physically and financially.

Life can be a battle, and it's one fight that I will not give up on.

Lakota: There are quite a few more places than the couch where we could have some good kinky sex ;)

R.E.H. said...

Sparkling Red: Another meme? Two in two days? Alright, alright... I'll check it out. ;)

TT: Sloth phobia? That's a new one... how can a cute looking animal like that inspire nightmares? ;)

you not only help yourself but us in the process.

Thanks for writing that. It gives me a lot of pleasure and inspiration if that is the case. And, surely, if I can help myself in any way, and others can benefit from me doing so, that is a wonderful bonus.

We are all struggling in life at times, I'm sure. Even those who appear to really have it together.

The OE: Welcome! I'm sure a good rest is needed after that. Not sure that is Sloth, though - that would be well deserved rest ;)

~Angela~: It appears The OE does have a blog, so I doubt it is spam.

Farmer*s Wife: See, I've got FOUR angels! Charlie only had three ;)

The reason I started this blog was to get things out that needed out, whether trivial or life changing events... so being open is what I aim to be.

R.E.H. said...

Aunt Jackie: I think Sloth and Gluttony often go hand in hand. Yesterday I sinned a lot, primarily with these two sins. Eating left-over chips and snacks from the party, while laying flat out on my back in front of the television set most of the day. I had a serious hang-over ;)

Jo: Thanks. I have always been the "self examinating" kind. It is sometimes good, sometimes not so good - because no one is there to tell me I'm wrong at times... and, because of that I may put myself down instead of picking myself up sometimes.

Jeff B: Only a few words can say a lot sometimes ;)

Thanks. Glad you enjoy the sins. Nice thought, that I may not be as "Slothy" as I think... I do put in some effort in this blog from time to time after all.

Raven: Yes, I think reading the comments on these posts are a lot of help. Sometimes thought-provoking, sometimes upsetting, and often times very entertaining ;)

I agree, there may be a fine line between wasting time and utilizing time to recharge ones batteries. And, hopefully, what I'm going through right now is a battery change.

Interesting about creative people needing to do this, which does strike a chord with me. Much of what I am (not) doing right now, is spent really trying to figure out what I want to do with my situation right now, and how I would go about getting there.

That, in itself, gets very confusing... especially when one has a knack for over-analyzing everthing. As well as have a tendency to consider worst case scenarios first...

Jahooni: It's nice to see you drop by though ;) You Slothful woman you! ;)

Jen: Thanks for being supportive and understanding those things I wrote. It is amazing how often, and how many of us appear to go through these things... it's good to know one is not the only one ;)

I do believe I'll bounce back soon enough. Hey, summer is near, and summers are usually good times for me.

Dianne said...

just dropped by to say I've been thinking about you

was happy to see you responding to all the comments, that way I knew you were out there.

R.E.H. said...

Dianne: Thanks. Yeah, I'm around. Yesterday I had a bad hangover ;) This morning I just had time to quickly respond, and I'm working on a new post tonight... then, hopefully, I'll have time to catch up with some blog hoppin'... It's been a busy day.

Dianne said...

Hangover - not so good, busy day - that's good!

Looking forward to hearing about the party.

R.E.H. said...

Dianne: I'm getting old... these hangovers never used to be this bad ;)

Angela said...

The OE got to my blog from yours, and then went and commented on the blogs of everyone I linked to in my last couple of posts... All with cryptic things involving being some sort of spy that had nothing to do with the post... Definitely spam.

Ginormous Boobs said...

Sloth will always be my favorite character from The Goonies.

R.E.H. said...

~Angela~: Yeah, I noticed that The OE's blog was all about being a spy as well... I guess that's his niche ;)

Ginormous Boobs: I have to watch that movie again... I don't remember that character.

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

OH, you know "Sid" in Ice Age and Ice Age the meltdown is a prehistoric sloth.

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

[Rethinking that as you probably haven't watch a kid movie in awhile....but, either way...he's a sloth]

Later Gator

R.E.H. said...

Farmer*s Wife: I did see the first Ice Age - and I loved it. I don't usually enjoy modern animated movies, but Ice Age was freakin' brilliant! ;)

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